an understanding..

had a long talk with K..
he told me his story abt H and him..

somehow we came to the same conclusion..
based on wat we had seen our friends been thru and wat we had been through ourselves...
that when it comes to a relationship...

females are heartless by large...
they basically dun care abt ur feelings when announcing they want a break..
and that, compared to guys...
we tend to pay more attention to the girl's feelings and try to soften the impact cause we dun want them to be in a tougher situation than they already are.
while females on the other hand are just plain brutal.
when they feel that they no longer have anymore feelings for the person..
they just asked for a break without blinking an eye..
how much more brutal can it get?

then when guys made an 'emotional' U-turn...
he is back for good...
main reason is that he regrets wat happens and would do anything just for that U-turn...
but the female counterparts are able to do the same turn....
but still make the whole relationship as volatile as it can get~!...

call guys stubborn or wat...
when the whole relationship is failing...
guys would still hang on and fight til the last breathe...
cause if he were to go down..
he rather go down fighting for something which he believes in.
and most of the time..
we got shrugged off as if we are a pest on their shoulders.
girls got it easier of course...
the girls tend to just let go and see if the guy does anything..
we hardly heard of any girl(s) going all out to get the guy back...
not that there are none...
but based on the similar scenario...
i hardly think so...

then when guys are all alone in a foreign country...
we are expected to endure all things...
so when we mentioned that at least the girls got their own emotional support back at home...
or even their frens and familiar surroundings arnd..
they think the guys are mainly acting pitiful...
but fact is that we are NOT in our comfort zone..
who is trying to act pitiful?...
sigh...

and of course...
all this is largely based on the fact that IF the guy loves the girl more...
so pls dun turn arnd and shoot me for generalising all females...